5 Tips to Elevate Your Solo Play Session with Toys

Let’s be real—sometimes, you’re in the mood, but your body isn’t catching up. Or maybe you’re getting bored of the same old routine with your go-to toy. The good news? You don’t have to settle for uninspired solo sessions. A few small changes can make a big difference in how you experience pleasure. Here are five ways to switch things up and keep things feeling fresh.

Get Creative with Your Toy

Your toy may have been designed for a specific purpose, but that doesn’t mean you have to use it the same way every time. Try stimulating different erogenous zones—run your wand over your nipples, inner thighs, or even the small of your back. If you have a suction toy, experiment with teasing your neck or tracing it along your lips before moving to more sensitive areas. The key is to explore your body with curiosity and let your sensations guide you.

Explore Every Setting and Sensation

We’ve all been there—finding that one vibration setting that gets the job done and sticking with it. But what if there’s an even better one you’ve been ignoring? Take time to explore all the vibration settings, speeds, and pulsation modes your toy has to offer. If you have a glass or stainless-steel toy, experiment with temperature play by running it under warm or cool water before use. A slight temperature change can heighten sensitivity and make your solo play feel fresh and exciting.

Switch Up Your Position and Location

If you usually lay on your back, you might be limiting yourself without even realizing it. Try lying on your stomach with a pillow under your hips for better angles. Stand up and rest one leg on a bed or chair to access new angles. If your toy is waterproof, take it into the shower or bathtub and let the warm water add an extra layer of relaxation and pleasure. And if you want to add a little extra excitement, use a mirror—watching yourself can be a whole new kind of turn-on.

Change Your Stimulation

If you’re always watching the same kind of porn or scrolling the same bookmarks, your brain might be on autopilot. Try ethical porn, audio erotica (check out apps like Dipsea or your local library’s audiobook collection), or even erotic poetry. Experimenting with different forms of stimulation can enhance arousal and deepen your connection to your fantasies.

Ditch the Toy (Yes, Really!)

Sometimes, the best way to refresh your solo play is to go back to the basics. If your toy is starting to feel like a crutch rather than an enhancement, give yourself permission to experience pleasure without it. Use your fingers, grind against a pillow, or explore different types of touch and pressure. Reconnecting with your body in this way can make future sessions—with or without toys—even more satisfying.