Why “The Erotic”?
Create The Erotic guides Black/African queer people to embrace their true erotic selves and prioritize pleasure. Through coaching, education, community, and actionable resources. The erotic helps people break free from societal constraints, encouraging a culture of healing, joy, and liberation.
Background & Experience
I’m a certified clinical sexologist and sexuality educator with nearly a decade of experience in sexual and reproductive health. I started this work in 2016, teaching sex education in schools, colleges, and community spaces before shifting my focus to adult coaching and education.
Working at an adult toy store deepened my understanding of pleasure education and showed me just how many people were seeking shame-free, informed support around their sexuality. That experience led me to sex coaching, where I now work with adults—helping individuals, couples, and groups explore pleasure, intimacy, and sexual liberation in ways that feel right for them. My approach is trauma-informed, rooted in Black feminism and intersectionality, and centers LGBTQIA+ experiences.