Create The Erotic
Welcum!
I’m Victoria a queer Nigerian certified clinical sexologist and founder of Create The Erotic.
I serve queer Black/African individuals, primarily women-identified people, who are either new to embracing the erotic and pleasure at the center of their lives or are seeking a community already engaged in this space.
I support those who no longer wish to hide parts of their lives and want to show up fully as themselves. I work with individuals, couples, and groups by sharing experiences they can learn from and providing actionable advice they can incorporate into their everyday lives.
My Identities:
Queer, Black, Nigerian, Ethically Non-Monogamous, Dancer, Writer, Virgo sun, Aquarius moon, Scorpio rising, Kinky, Sensual, Sultry, Creative, Switch, Spiritual, Teacher, Traveler, Life Path #5, Animation lover, Brat, Pleasure, Activist, Student, Daughter of Immigrants, Black Feminist
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Sensuality
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Intimacy
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Liberation
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Freedom
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Pleasure · Sensuality . Intimacy . Liberation . Freedom .
Create The Erotic promises to create a space where the erotic can thrive, a space that is nonjudgmental, raw, expansive, and explorative.
Erotic Offerings
1:1 Coaching
Dive deep into your desires and unlock the sex life you’ve always dreamed of with personalized, judgment-free guidance designed just for you.
Relationship Coaching
Rediscover connection, spark, passion, and navigate intimacy with supportive coaching that honors your unique journey as partners.
Workshops & Retreats
Transform your retreat or conference room into a space of growth and exploration with inclusive workshops that center education, pleasure, and connection.
Sex Toy Consultation
Find your perfect sex toy without the guesswork. Understand your pleasure preferences and needs, and receive personalized recommendations.
Frequently asked questions
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Sex coaching is a goal-oriented process that helps individuals and couples enhance intimacy, overcome challenges, and build confidence. Unlike therapy, which explores past trauma or deep psychological issues, sex coaching focuses on education, communication, and actionable strategies for a fulfilling sex life.
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Sex coaching is for anyone looking to improve their sex life, whether navigating mismatched desire, exploring their sexuality, overcoming shame, or enhancing communication with a partner. It’s a shame-free, inclusive space for individuals and couples of all identities and relationship styles.
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Sessions are tailored to your needs and may include guided discussions, exercises, and education on intimacy, pleasure, and communication. They are client-led, confidential, and designed to help you achieve your personal goals.
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Yes! Coaching is available virtually via a secure video platform, making it accessible from anywhere.