Creating Space For
The Erotic To Thrive
Connect with your true erotic self, prioritize pleasure, and embrace sexual liberation
My services
1:1 Coaching
Dive deep into your desires and unlock the sex life you’ve always dreamed of with personalized, judgment-free guidance deigned just for you.
Couples Coaching
Rediscover connection, spark, passion and navigate intimacy with supportive coaching that honors your unique journey as partners.
Workshops
Transform your retreat or conference room into a space of growth and exploration with inclusive workshops that center education, pleasure, and connection.
Sex Toy Consultation
Find your perfect sex toy without the guesswork. Understand your pleasure preferences, needs, and receive personalized recommendations.
Pleasure
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Sensuality
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Intimacy
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Liberation
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Pleasure · Sensuality . Intimacy . Liberation .
Frequently asked questions
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Sex coaching is a goal-oriented process that helps individuals and couples enhance intimacy, overcome challenges, and build confidence. Unlike therapy, which explores past trauma or deep psychological issues, sex coaching focuses on education, communication, and actionable strategies for a fulfilling sex life.
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Sex coaching is for anyone looking to improve their sex life, whether navigating mismatched desire, exploring their sexuality, overcoming shame, or enhancing communication with a partner. It’s a shame-free, inclusive space for individuals and couples of all identities and relationship styles.
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Sessions are tailored to your needs and may include guided discussions, exercises, and education on intimacy, pleasure, and communication. They are client-led, confidential, and designed to help you achieve your personal goals.
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Yes! Coaching is available virtually via a secure video platform, making it accessible from anywhere.
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About
Welcum! I’m Victoria.
I’m a queer Nigerian certified clinical sexologist and founder of Create The Erotic. My work started in sexual and reproductive health in the nonprofit sector and adult novelty business. My practice is grounded in trauma-informed care, Black feminism, and intersectionality. I’m passionate about guiding queer individuals, couples, and groups to embrace their sexual liberation through coaching and education.
My Identites:
Queer, Black, Nigerian, Ethically Non-Monogamous, Dancer, Writer, Virgo sun, Aquarius moon, Scorpio rising, Kinky, Sensual, Sultry, Creative, Switch, Spiritual, Teacher, Traveler, Life Path #5, Animation lLover, Brat, Pleasure, Activist, Student, Daughter of Immigrants, Black Feminist